I’ve been a bridesmaid a few times, and that’s given me some big opinions on weddings, bridesmaid-ing, and more. So I thought I’d share some tips to those who are taking on the bridesmaid gig!
1. Wear a Button-Up or a Wide Neck Top
On the day of the wedding, you likely have make-up and hair to happen, and it would be great if you could easily change your shirt without messing either! So wear a button-up, a wrap dress, or a wide neck top.
2. Chip in for Coffee or Something
I know, I know! Weddings are expensive, especially when you’re a bridesmaid! From hair to makeup to dress to other beauty items, the costs skyrocket. But if you can, treat everyone to coffee on the day of the wedding!
3. Pack Your Emergency Kit
This kit has served me for two weddings so far, and the items that seem to get the most used are quick stain removers, fashion tape, and bobby pins. This last wedding I was asked for Aloe Vera or a tiny screw driver; unfortunately, I didn’t have either.
4. Speak Up About Your Style to the Make Up Artist
One of the most challenging things for makeup, especially if you do your own, is that you have your own way of applying makeup. So if you don’t wear makeup very often, then please tell the artist. It can make your final look more like you.
5. Make Sure You Eat!
Wedding day is busy, even if you’re just waiting. Be sure to either pack snacks or have a meal planned (sometimes the bride handles this). Nothing is worse than a bunch of cranky women (and men).
6. Take a Few Moments to Yourself
If you started the wedding day at 6 am and you know the day won’t be over until after 10 pm, make sure you take moments for yourself. Find a quiet room or hide out in the bathroom for a few. It’s completely and totally okay!
7. Be Prepared for Dancing!
If your dress is full length, use safety pins to hold up your dress. And why not bring tennis shoes, you’ll be able to dance for SO MUCH longer. I don’t know. I kind of love the fancy dress with practical shoes.
Have you been a bridesmaid before? What are your best bridesmaid tips?
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